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The Two Stone Engagement Ring: One Love, Two Souls
Gone are the days when “engagement ring” is synonymous with “solitaire.” Two-stone styles are winning over millennial couples, but also have historic roots.
Updated: March 27, 2026
Written by: Marion Fasel
The two-stone engagement ring is a modern portrayal of romance today, not to mention a category with endless opportunity for interpretation. Maybe that’s why millennial couples have been so quick to adapt the history-linked style.
Two stone engagement rings have become a glorious alternative to the single center stone.
Meet the Expert
- Marion Fasel is an esteemed jewelry expert, author, curator, and trend forecaster.
- She is the founder and Editorial Director of The Adventurine online jewelry magazine.
- She is the author of several books, including The History of Diamond Engagement Rings: A True Romance.
One glorious diamond has long been the iconic centerpiece of engagement rings. A single stone is such an accepted foundation for the all-important love jewel that the term “solitaire ring” is used as a synonym for engagement rings. But lately we have been seeing double in the engagement ring category. Two stone engagement rings have become a glorious alternative to the single center stone.
Two-stone rings have become a glorious alternative to the single center stone.
The two stone engagement ring is often referred to as a Toi et Moi ring. Toi et Moi, which means “You and Me,” is never translated when referring to the design. French is very much the language of jewelry as well as love. Usually, the two-stone or Toi et Moi rings are composed of diamonds of about the same size, but nowadays there are a number of variations. More on that in a moment. First let’s review how the historic look came back into vogue.
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The History of the Two Stone Engagement Ring
Two-stone engagement rings initially reemerged as a big deal for millennial brides when mega-influencer-model-actress Emily Ratajkowski showed off her stunner from Sebastian Bear-McClard on July 18, 2018. Emrata clearly adores the ring, which is set with a princess-cut and pear-shape diamond on a gold band, and has continuously put it front and center in her Instagram posts to her 28 million-plus followers. The couple worked on the gigantic one-of-a-kind jewel with the designer of Alison Lou, Alison Chemla.
Another major double-gem engagement ring moment for a millennial bride came on December 20, 2020 when Ariana Grande debuted her engagement ring from Dalton Gomez on Instagram. The jewel made by Solow & Co. has an oval-shaped diamond and a pearl from a sentimental family ring in Grande’s collection. It caused a sensation and became one of Instagram’s most popular posts of all time with over 15 million likes.
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Ratajkowski and Grande catapulted two stone engagement ring styles to a high level of desirability for a new generation, but the look is nothing new. It has roots dating back to the eighteenth century and one of the most famous couples in the world.
France’s Napoleon and Joséphine originally popularized Toi et Moi engagement rings. The gold ring Napoleon presented to his true love in 1796 had a pear-shape diamond and sapphire of about equal size set next to one another in cut-down button-back settings. The point of each stone was set in different directions.
Former First Lady Jackie Kennedy is the most famous modern bride to have a two stone engagement ring. The Van Cleef & Arpels ring she received from President Kennedy, when he was a young senator in 1953, was set with an emerald cut emerald and an emerald cut diamond. Both gems weighed almost three carats. Around ten years later when she was famously redesigning the White House, Mrs. Kennedy had Van Cleef & Arpels reset the two gems in her engagement ring with a laurel wreath of marquise shape diamonds on the band flanking the two gems.
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Modern Two Stone Engagement Rings
Today, far and away the most popular style of two stone engagement rings feature two diamonds. Some have two different shapes of diamonds, which often touch each other in the mounting, but are other times spaced apart. It’s a mode that has been in the Jemma Wynne collection for many years.
Jenny Klatt, who designs the collection along with Stephanie Wynne, says they came up with the idea when she wanted to redesign her engagement ring. “I wasn’t wearing my ring because the setting was too fancy and traditional feeling,” explains Klatt. “For the new design we mimicked the shape of our open bangles in the ring and put two Asscher cut diamonds on the ends. When it was done, I knew I would wear it all the time.” It’s a story that proves the point while two-stone rings have roots in history the freshness of the look now makes it as appealing as it is glamorous.
Things to Consider When Choosing a Two-Stone Engagement Ring
Like all great jewelry, the beauty of a two-stone engagement ring is not only in how it looks, but in what it expresses. The design offers endless possibilities, but a few thoughtful considerations can help guide the selection.
Meaning and Symbolism:
At its core, the two-stone ring represents the union of two individuals. The stones may symbolize two souls, two lives, or even two meaningful moments in a relationship. Some couples choose stones that reflect their personal story, making the jewel as intimate as it is beautiful.
Color Combination:
While two diamonds remain the most classic choice, mixing gemstones introduces another layer of meaning. A diamond paired with a sapphire, emerald, or even a pearl can add contrast and personality. The interplay of color can be subtle or striking, depending on the wearer’s style.
Cut and Shape:
The relationship between the shapes of the stones defines the character of the ring. Matching cuts create harmony, while contrasting shapes—such as a pear and an emerald cut—bring a sense of modernity and movement. The proportions of each stone should feel balanced when viewed together.
Setting Style:
The way the stones are set determines how they interact. Some designs place the gems side by side so they nearly touch, emphasizing unity. Others allow space between the stones, creating a more open, contemporary look. The setting also influences how light moves through the diamonds, enhancing their brilliance.
Metal Choice:
The metal serves as the foundation of the design and can subtly shift its tone. Yellow gold lends warmth and a vintage sensibility, platinum offers a crisp and enduring elegance, and rose gold introduces a romantic softness. Each choice frames the stones in a different way.
Lifestyle and Durability:
As with any engagement ring, practicality matters. Consider how the ring will be worn day to day. A lower profile setting may suit an active lifestyle, while secure prongs or bezels ensure the stones remain protected over time. The goal is a ring that is as wearable as it is meaningful.
